Once you have used an opener on a woman, it is time to move into your next phase of how to get women into bed. Openers are essential because it allows you to enter into a conversation with the girl you like. But, you should not take too long on your opener, and nor should you worry about the impact your opener has on your ultimate results. An opener just gets your foot in the door as you initiate a conversation with a girl. Once your foot is in the door, you must then take control and open the door the rest of the way.
To do this correctly, you need to know how to transition from the opener to engaging in a conversation that will eventually allow you to escalate the interaction to wherever you want it to go. Because you are the one who approached the girl, it is your job to keep the conversation going. You have to keep the subject interesting and fun.
In fact, in the early part of the interaction, you will be doing 90% of the talking until she becomes more comfortable with sharing more with you. Eventually, you will even out the sharing, but at first, it is essential that you direct the conversation where you want it to go.
This all means that you need to entertain the girl. You need to ensure that she is having a good time and that they are investing more and more into the interaction all the time. One way to transition into a conversation is to make a statement that requires a response from the girl. You do not want to ask a question because each time you do ask one, you are withdrawing one of a limited number of questions you have in an imaginary bank. Statements do not have this same limit. So, if you want to ask her where she’s from say something like, “you look like you’re from New York.” This will require her to either confirm or deny your suspicion, but either way, she is acknowledging your attempt to have a conversation and if she does respond, she is giving you permission to continue it.
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